Event Chat

Know the room before you walk in

Every event has a private group chat that opens 48 hours before. Introduce yourself, see who else is going, and arrive already knowing people.

How event chat works

Three steps from RSVP to walking in with confidence.

01

RSVP to an event

Reserve your spot at a curated event. Once confirmed, you’re automatically added to the event’s private group chat with all other attendees.

02

Chat unlocks 48 hours before

The group chat opens 48 hours before the event. Introduce yourself, see who else is going, ask what everyone’s wearing, and break the ice early.

03

Walk in already connected

Arrive at the event already knowing names, faces, and shared interests. No awkward first approaches — just continue the conversations you’ve already started.

More than just text

Interactive features that get conversations going

Event chat isn't just a basic group message. It's packed with built-in tools designed to break the ice and get people talking before they even meet in person.

Icebreakers — Fun prompts to get everyone talking
Polls — Vote on event plans and preferences
Hot Takes — Debate spicy questions with attendees
Vibe Checks — Quick this-or-that compatibility games
Reactions — React with emoji to any message
@Mentions — Tag specific people in conversation

See it in action

Here's what a typical event chat looks like the day before an event.

Rooftop Mixer \u2014 Mar 15

12 attendees \u00b7 Chat opens in 48h

+8

Chat room is now open! Say hi and introduce yourself 🎉

\u2728 Icebreaker \u00b7 Fun & Light

What’s your go-to drink order?

🍸 Cocktails🍺 Beer🧃 Wine
S

Sarah

Espresso martini, obviously ☕🍸

😂 3🔥 2
M

Marcus

Old fashioned. Can’t go wrong with a classic. Who else is coming from downtown?

🤝 1
Poll

Where should we grab pre-drinks?

The rooftop bar next door50%
Just meet at the venue30%
Somewhere new — surprise us20%

10 votes

P

Priya

This is my first SinglesHH event! Super excited to meet everyone 😊

❤️ 6🎉 4
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Member Feature

Event Chat is a member feature

Join InMix for $25/month and unlock event chat plus everything else you need to make real connections.

Pre-event group chats for every RSVP’d event
Send 3 anonymous Sparks after each event
Spark Hints — know when someone is interested
Social Groups — group chats between events
Direct messaging with your matches
Priority RSVPs and exclusive member events
Full attendee list access at every event

Frequently asked questions

When does the event chat open?

48 hours before the event start time. You’ll get a notification when it unlocks so you don’t miss it.

Who can see the event chat?

Only people who have RSVP’d with a confirmed or waitlisted status. It’s a private group for attendees only.

What happens to the chat after the event?

The chat is archived 48 hours after the event ends. You can still read messages but can’t send new ones.

Do I need to be a member to use event chat?

Yes, event chat is included with your $25/month membership along with Sparks, Social Groups, and 15+ other perks.

Join the conversation before you arrive

Become a member to unlock event chat and 15+ other perks designed to help you make real connections.